One of the best things about coming home is that it's a place where you can be "nekkid". In a sense physically, but more so as a person. The one thing about being "nekkid" is that it's who the realest version of you.
At home, when you're married, there's one person that you can be completely honest or "nekkid" with. My wife and I are best friends, but sometimes it's hard to be "nekkid" with her. Until we as men, understand that she's not there to judge or critical, we can become closer friends. Our wives want that, they want the parts of us that we've been reluctant to share with anyone else. They actually need it!
The closer a man is to his wife, the more she trusts and respects him. Those are two key things that we need. Why? Because if a woman can't trust you, then she will do her best to treat you like it. Even if there's a slight change in the trust, she will let you know! Nobody wants to live like that!
We also need respect! I believe that men who feel that their woman doesn't respect him hits her because he doesn't know of any other way to get respect quicker. That's not how things should be, but it's..in most cases of physical abuse....how they start.
Thus I say all that, to say this: Take care of Home! It's your sanctuary, not your battleground! Learn how to keep the peace and how to get it as well!
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