In relationships, particularly marriage, there are many times, we as men, just don't want to argue...discuss...frankly talk. But, we need to. Learning the little that I have, I've learned that it's better to deal with the small problems...while they're small. Instead of waiting until they've become big problems to her because she's tried to discuss them or hint at you about talking. We as man, have to learn that a lil' bit goes a long way.
In our house, we call it checking in. We have to check in with each other because I don't know where she is in her mind. A woman's mind is unexplainable. Her thought could range from why she feels the way she feels, to why she can't seem to lose weight, to why the kids lunches were fixed by 7am. You just don't know! This I can say is that it let's her know that you she's important to you. She didn't have to ask you to listen, you wanted to and for that she's more open to you.
She might not just come out and say exactly what's on her mind, but you gotta' know your woman. Some women, like to dance around the situations, you just have to dance with them so that they know you're serious about checking in. So do it at least once a day, take time for her and she'll respond to you as well.
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