One of the ups about being married to your best friend is that she's there. IF she's a good woman, she's there. IF she's not there, she's still a good woman who hasn't gotten there yet. It's something about having that person in your corner that gives you a charge to get you up and face whatever you are facing.
In my short time of marriage, a lot of times we could spend more time battling with each other than against the world. In some cases, this may prove to be more true than not. But, we have to stop, and get to the point to where we understand that we shouldn't be fighting against each other. Those lil' disagreements where you have to be right, or she has to be wrong, has a major negative effect on the relationship.
Learning to work together, in my opinion isn't always difficult, but learning how to operate as one, not there is a difficulty. Whenever you take 2 things and make them one, its a process. So don't forget, and I'm reminding myself too, that it's a lifetime commitment and the journey is rewarding....even in the corner.
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