when you don't know

Conversations can be long and drawn out. For some of us, the difficulty in keeping interest is an issue, for others it's trying not to look that way can be even harder. There's typically a time when she will hit you with a "what do you think". Here's a small tip...when you don't know what to say....don't say anything. If you can't really explain it or she wants an explanation...tell her you don't know what to say. This might take things in an entirely different section of the world, but, it's the truth. You might wanna follow up with why you don't know what to say. I add an "I don't know because there's just a lot going through my mind". In many cases, the more you talk, the more you confuse yourself. Remember, she's thought about it (sometimes more than you could think) and she's processed it. You don't always get that luxury. Also, she's not always speaking a language that we understand (I'll get into this later). So just put it out there. Come back to the conversation when you figure things out. By then, she's thought about it, but not as much. Once she's gotten her point across, she's goes into wondering about you. Some women don't go as far as that. But remember, when you don't know what to say, don't say anything or tell her exactly that!